Happy Women's Day!

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Image source- Times Of India


Woman. A ever-strong species. A homo sapien who is complete by herself. Words fall short to describe it.

On this woman's day, here is my message to all the girls and ladies.

Be yourself. Live your life your way. Take your own decisions which makes you happy and take responsibility of it too. Be carefree of the society's judgements. The person who will be with you always is you. So give yourself loads of self-love. 

Do not take any decision under force. Wear (or not) whatever you wish to, be financially independent or a home-maker (just let the groom know before getting married, if you CHOOSE to marry), with make-up or without make-up, being a virgin till marriage or not, to choose to be a mother or not, carrying the pregnancy till term or aborting it (as long as it isn't gender biased), travelling the world or cozing out at home, and so many other things! Do not let societal and familial expectations rule your life. You have the power to rule and change these mysogynistic rules.

You have the power to decide for yourself. But do not judge others for their choices that do not match your beliefs or thinking. Be accepting, not judgemental. Live and let live.

Make your own identity, with whatever decisions you make in your life, so that you are not reduced to just someone's mother, wife/girlfriend, daughter, or sister. 

Even if you are a transgender woman, you count as a women. Do not let society tell you otherwise. 

Do not let anyone take you for granted. You are precious. Exit that toxic relationship. Speak up when you are wronged. Build up your own business or look for job in a company with better work environment. Know how you to defend yourself in any dangerous situation before trying to perfect the 'gol roti' (atleast it is edible and that's enough. If they still want, ask them to make it themselves 😉). 

Go for equal rights but do not compete with men in the process. Its about equality, not domination. Thrash patrciarchy and point out males with misogyny, not all men. And do not get influenced by fake feminists either.

And men,
Treat girls and women equal to you, not subordinate to you. Respect people from all genders, LGBTQ+ inclusive. Set a standard for men so that your daughter/sister do not settle for anything less than she deserves.

Lets celebrate this day and Men's day everyday in a year. So that there is equality everyday. Let every day be Women's and Men's day, for equality. So that we don't treat women as special only for one day and the next day again, makw the wotld harder, unsafe and unequal for them.

Peace. Period.

Happy Women's Day again.


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Hello, I am Ritika Jakhotiya, the blogger behind Ritika Ruminates. I am an English graduate and currently pursuing an M.A. in English. I love reading and writing. Ritika Ruminates (formerly 'Blogging With Ritz') is my personal blog site, where I write about things close to my heart (and mind) and dish out my thoughts on topics that concern me or inspire my creativity. These topics include books, cinema, feminism, social themes/taboos, and travel. Before you leave, please hit the follow button and subscribe to get notified about new blog posts and share the post with others. I also create content (as a reader) on my Instagram @thisisritika_j, where I share book reviews, relatable memes and reels.

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