Negative affects of toxic parenting

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Toxic parenting is hard to deal with. The pressure it creates on kid is really at a huge level. Dealing with toxic parenting is very hard. 

I came across this post on Instagram by IG handle named @tera._dost and have shared the post slides in the post (Not any paid promotion or any kind of that). I wouldn't be writing much today as those slides are enough. 
Do not force things on them related to ANYTHING.

Labelling someone isn't just right. 

Your child is unique and the only one on this Earth. There will be similar people but no one exactly same to child, not exactly same as yours. Stop the cliché dialogue "Sharmaji ka beta/beti" or whosever child. We kids are not interested in being like them.

Talk to them in composed way, have a conversation, make them realize their mistake and how can they correct it and not repeat it again. You can ground them for some time. When you scream, they look at your tone, not words and talk to others (in present or future) in similar tone. 

Trust your kids, their decisions, their words. Teach them honesty by being honest yourself. Kids look up to you. If you as a parent lie, they would lie too. Trust and honesty goes both ways.

Kids can follow these tips to cope with it or can talk to this team or any counsellor you wish to talk to. 

Parents can stop doing this abobe mentioned things one by one (this toxic parenting cannot be changed overnight).

Toxic parenting needs to be stopped if you wish for good mental, emotional, spiritual and physical health of your child 
Hello, I am Ritika Jakhotiya, the blogger behind Ritika Ruminates. I am an English graduate and currently pursuing an M.A. in English. I love reading and writing. Ritika Ruminates (formerly 'Blogging With Ritz') is my personal blog site, where I write about things close to my heart (and mind) and dish out my thoughts on topics that concern me or inspire my creativity. These topics include books, cinema, feminism, social themes/taboos, and travel. Before you leave, please hit the follow button and subscribe to get notified about new blog posts and share the post with others. I also create content (as a reader) on my Instagram @thisisritika_j, where I share book reviews, relatable memes and reels.

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