Be stubborn

Being stubborn is important. Well, by being stubborn, I mean to say about being stubborn for your dreams and even relationships. And not about being stubborn to buy any toy, chocolate or any kind of thing you like or being attracted to in a shop or so😅. One needs to be stubborn about our dreams and even our relationship. Whatever your dream is, you need to be stubborn enough to keep pursuing it and not to give up on it despite the struggle and failed attempts. It is ok to take a break but do not give up on your area. One needs to stand up for their dream. There would be many people who would make fun of your dream, would say that you will not be able to achieve your dream, would demotivate you, and whatnot. They would try to pull you down so that you cannot reach your dream or try to brainwash you and make you change your dreams. If you can not be stubborn enough for your dreams and stand up for your dreams, no one else will be able to stand up for you or your dreams. You will need to focus on your dream work smart and hard for it and don't let other people try to demotivate you make you change your dreams. You have to believe that your dreams are achievable and best for you and that working on this dream and achieving will make you happy. Do not care about what people say about you or your dreams. Often they say it to pull you down or that they themselves could not pursue their actual dream and had to pursue someone else's dreams or just run in the rat race. You need to keep negative people away from your life so that you are less affected by their negativity caused by them and can peacefully dedicate yourself to your dreams. If it is someone who you can not cut any relation with, you can just shut them off mentally by avoiding them and their negative talks. Surround yourself with positive people who will motivate you and also act as an honest critique when required who will give you suggestions on what you can do or how you can correct your work which went wrong or maybe even yourself when you go off track. This is something I am saying from my own personal experience. I've been stubborn about my dreams and now I'm happily pursuing my dreams. Even if in worst situations when your dream fails, you will learn something and would not have any regrets for doing what you wanted to. You would have regrets at least. Being stubborn for your dreams is worth it.

Being stubborn is important in relationships too, especially more in romantic relationships. You may have to stand up for someone you love in various situations. It can be in a situation like marriages when your family or friends may not accept your partner or so (especially denial about inter-caste or inter-religious marriages in India) where you will need to stand up for your partner or taking a stand for someone you love in needy situations. But it does not mean that you ignore any bad habits of someone you love either. You can talk to them and sort things out. You will have to stand up for your loved ones till the 'forever' so being stubborn enough has some importance in the relationships too.

So being stubborn enough for your dreams and even relationships is important.

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